<\/span><\/h2>\nIf socializing is the reason, then daycare before the age if 3 is completely unnecessary. They are not able to switch from self play to real social play before that age.<\/p>\n
Babies are not able to self regulate. They need the caregiver to calm them down. The mother is the best option.<\/p>\n
An overworked teacher in a kindergarten is not able to properly soothe all the babies. So they need to learn to soothe themselves. Which might lead to horrible personality issues when they are grown ups.<\/p>\n
Before being 3 years old, they don’t know if their parent will ever come back. They cannot understand yet. So they suffer on daily basis.<\/p>\n
Of course, the parents are blind to this because it is not something they’ve been told. They think that their baby cries only at the beginning and then it gets used to it.<\/p>\n
Lie.<\/p>\n
Babies just get used to the suffering.<\/p>\n
A teacher can never care, or read the babies’ needs better than the parent. Especially since they’re not even paid well. Incentive is 0.<\/p>\n
Which leads to the high staff turnover. The kids need to attach over and over with different strangers.<\/p>\n
It’s all just a business. Both parents are forced to go work under the pretense of ‘freedom’ and ‘equality of the sexes’, whilst the government takes half their money in taxes.<\/p>\n
What a joke.<\/p>\n
People are literally shipping their kids off to be educated by some random person during the most formative years of brain development. Kids need to be influenced by their parents values before everyone else.<\/p>\n
Kids and babies should absolutely spend times with grandparents and other people who truly love them. They can feel the love and these people will stay in the child’s life for a long time. Family and friends is a completely different topic than daycare. It’s incomparable.<\/p>\n
The kid will learn that mommy and daddy have a personal life too, by seeing them do stuff together, not by being dropped in an institution. He will learn to respect their lifestyle, privacy, and values even more.<\/p>\n
99% of the kids are dropped to daycare because the parents go to work, not because they do meaningful stuff with each other.<\/p>\n
\nFull credit goes to my wife.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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